Self- Talk & the Law Of Attraction
Self Talking is an every-second practiced activity and a minor conscious tweaking in it can boost the process of manifesting.
We as humans all talk to ourselves every moment ( i bet you observed it now & had a self -talking thought, processing that statement). We all have a silent, internal conversation with ourselves, in our mind, almost all of the time. This is called Internal Self-Talk and is totally natural and healthy. Sometimes we knowingly talk to our self about what we are thinking about and sometimes we self talk in regards to things we find interesting or observe in that moment of time, these related thoughts are nothing but your attraction. Remember what Law of attraction says “Like attracts like”.
Self Talking is an every moment practiced activity and with just a minor conscious tweak can boost the process of manifestation.
What thoughts circulate in your mind daily? how do you self talk to yourself?
Are you the one who is very clear on what you do not like in life?
what kind of person who always says maybe one day?
Are you the one who looks at your dream things and thinks “i wish i its mine”?
Are you a wishful Thinker?
Are you the one who says yourself to calm down and relax?
do you always feel and think “the worst always happens to me” or “This won’t work out.”
Are you always thinking “I never get things right.” and ” how come i cant do that”
Well those are some examples of what will NOT help manifest your dreams and desires. Word’s like these are a powerful way of stopping positive manifestations and attracting the wrong situations in your life. Be a positive power talker, by being a power attractor. A Power attractor is always a Power Talker and remember words are not just words, they have inherent power.
Quick tips to be instant positive Self – thinker
1- Observe your thoughts
“A thought, when given attention, starts thinking more thoughts”.
Observing your thoughts and emotions behind your words is the first vital step if you want to master how to use law of attraction. Observation is certainly the most important phase when you talk to yourself. So when a negative thought arises in your mind, it has the capacity to attract more negative thoughts. the key here is not to fuel the negative thought ” fire” by giving it more attention and in the absence of attention, a negative thought simply loses its force and dies back into the nothingness from which it arose. this also applies to positive thoughts, so fuel the right word fire in your mind, even if it may require you to put in extra effort, just trust me and have faith.
2 – Re – work the way you look at life.
Learning to Re program and re paraphrase your words is a great technique to attracting positive Self- talk and manifesting our dreams. All you have to do is to check your self-talks instead of saying ” she has a better life and more money than me, or they are fitter and have a better body than me , my life is nothing compared to theirs, you are connecting YOU with those poor outcomes and this is sending a very strong signal in Universe on what you want and the universe will match your energy and be given more ” poverty, weight gain, less money etc….
instead of associating you with negative experiences you can say
“I am already Wealthy.”
“Oh! How wonderful a wealthy lifestyle is”
“I like them, but i do business better than them, and i am getting more wealthy than they are ”
” My body is fit and healthy, i maintain my goal weight, and weight loss comes easy and effortlessly to me”
” happy and positive situations always happen to me”
The more if you are in sync with what you actually want the quicker it will manifest. Is it not wonderful approach to see yourself in a more positive , prosper light?
3 – the power of gratitude
As i have written in my article The power of gratitude, gratitude is the fastest way of changing your mindset and boosting your manifestation process. It’s more difficult to be negative about situations you face when you are remembering things you are grateful for, writing a daily list every morning of what you have got going on in your life can reduce depression, reduce negative self- talk, boost self esteem. ” attitude of gratitude ” is a good health choice, being more grateful more often can make us an optimistic and happier.
A healthy dose of positive self talk can dispel a large amount of negative. Being consciously aware of your self – talk and thought process you can begin to filter through your thoughts and feed the positive and defuse the fire on negative.We always have the ability to turn negative self talk into positive. You will begin to feel lighter and more positive.Positive words are more powerful than negative, because they are more closely aligned with our true nature (or Higher Self). Remember always come from the place of gratitude and appreciation and loving yourself for who you are even as you strive in developing and getting better.
So start listening to yourself!
Happy Manifesting x
Written By Andy Jackman x