“Set some goals. Stay quiet about it. Smash them out, no matter how long it takes you. Stay humble & Clap yourself on your back ( any small or large achievements. Any milestone is a win). ” The right people will notice & well the rest ( small select few of haters) will ALWAYS, have something to whinge & critique you about..
Unhappy people are never happy within them selves and will always find something to pick at!! It’s a reflection of themselves not you.
So smile, say something nice to them…
Let whatever issue they have with you bounce straight off you. ( and internally giggle at the simple mentality).
My mum has taught me many things in life , one of the biggest lessons is ” Andy , people are going to love you or hate you & that’s not your problem… It’s theirs.
So the nicer you are ( generally nice) to someone who is rude, mean, negative or so called “Hates you” , be the bigger person , say something nice, smile at them, the more friendly & nicer you are the more angry , annoyed & frustrated they get… ( it’s a lot harder to be an arsehole to someone is who is completing you, because in the end they look rediculous) and the world does notice!
Your existence alone has altered the world. You are more important than you know.
Happy days xx
Written by Andy Jackman xx